Saturday, October 10, 2009

How to Become an Alpha Male - Step 3

You have to become an alpha male if you want to achieve success in life - and not just with women. Alpha males are leaders - are you a leader or do you follow others and do as you are told? Women don't respect a man that's not respected by other men. This is the third thing I wanted to talk about. Leadership and Respect.

Respect
In order for you to become a true alpha male, you need to respect yourself first. Others will not respect you if you can not respect yourself. Of course, an alpha male has the confidence to make a joke on his own behalf - but that is done in an alpha manner too. What I'm talking here is conveying that you know what you are doing, that you have high standards and you don't look down upon yourself.

Never say negative things about yourself or display your weaknesses for no reason. An alpha male is not weak, and even if he has certain faults - he doesn't display them on a billboard for everyone to see. Be strong and decisive. Have respect for yourself by not putting yourself down and not letting people walk all over you. I'm not saying you should start fights - just have a "It's all cool, but don't fuck with me" attitude. Once other men start treating you with respect - women will respect you more. And more respect means more power. More power - means more hot women in your bedroom.

Leadership
Alpha males are natural leaders. Think about it for a moment - who do you follow? Who are the leaders in society? Model them. People look up to them and follow their lead. And that is incredibly attractive. Since you have power over your followers - which will make women wet the moment they see you. Alpha males are powerful men. Strive to be a leader - talk louder, be in control of situations and be decisive. Don't ask women "where do you want to go?" - go where YOU want to go, lead the way, and she will open the doors for you and help you seduce her.

I strongly advise you to read John Alexanders book "How to Become an Alpha Male". It has helped countless men get better with women by focusing on themselves. His method is by far the easiest and most effective way to become successful with women - and life, by becoming an alpha male. I've read countless books on this topic - and by far, this is the simplest and only guide you will ever need.

Jack