Saturday, October 10, 2009

How to Become an Alpha Male - Step 3

You have to become an alpha male if you want to achieve success in life - and not just with women. Alpha males are leaders - are you a leader or do you follow others and do as you are told? Women don't respect a man that's not respected by other men. This is the third thing I wanted to talk about. Leadership and Respect.

Respect
In order for you to become a true alpha male, you need to respect yourself first. Others will not respect you if you can not respect yourself. Of course, an alpha male has the confidence to make a joke on his own behalf - but that is done in an alpha manner too. What I'm talking here is conveying that you know what you are doing, that you have high standards and you don't look down upon yourself.

Never say negative things about yourself or display your weaknesses for no reason. An alpha male is not weak, and even if he has certain faults - he doesn't display them on a billboard for everyone to see. Be strong and decisive. Have respect for yourself by not putting yourself down and not letting people walk all over you. I'm not saying you should start fights - just have a "It's all cool, but don't fuck with me" attitude. Once other men start treating you with respect - women will respect you more. And more respect means more power. More power - means more hot women in your bedroom.

Leadership
Alpha males are natural leaders. Think about it for a moment - who do you follow? Who are the leaders in society? Model them. People look up to them and follow their lead. And that is incredibly attractive. Since you have power over your followers - which will make women wet the moment they see you. Alpha males are powerful men. Strive to be a leader - talk louder, be in control of situations and be decisive. Don't ask women "where do you want to go?" - go where YOU want to go, lead the way, and she will open the doors for you and help you seduce her.

I strongly advise you to read John Alexanders book "How to Become an Alpha Male". It has helped countless men get better with women by focusing on themselves. His method is by far the easiest and most effective way to become successful with women - and life, by becoming an alpha male. I've read countless books on this topic - and by far, this is the simplest and only guide you will ever need.

Jack

Saturday, August 15, 2009

How to Become an Alpha Male - Step Two

The second step to becoming an Alpha Male is a bit more practical then the first one. Alpha Males are naturally strong and decisive - that doesn't mean you have to be aggressive, no - you definitely shouldn't be aggressive - what you do need to do is be A MAN, a man of confidence and power - and a man like that is never nervous about bullshit, he is calm, cool and relaxed, and he handles his business if he has to, but he is never aggressive (starting fights etc. - because these are signs of internal weakness and insecurity).

Remember - Alpha Males are Not Aggressive (violent)!

So - step number two to becoming a true alpha male is getting strong - physically. Physical strenght is incredibly important for your mental strenght. A guy that is working out, lifting weights, as I like to say it - pumping iron, that guy has testosterone, he has power, he is growing and the iron teaches him very important life lessons. It doesn't matter if you're fat or skinny - get in the gym, start lifting weights and get in better shape. Once you look better, you'll feel better about yourself. Once you feel better about yourself and gain some muscle power - you'll naturally have more confidence - and that is what you need in order to become an alpha male that has dozens of women around him - NATURAL CONFIDENCE.

Step Two is Strenght.

You can not fake confidence - women can easily sense it, and it's not attractive. Being arrogant is not confidence, it's insecurity. You can't fake confidence - But, you CAN build it. Focus on building your palace of confidence, make it out of steel, make it hard - pumping iron will give you the kind of confidence you need to become more successful with women and life. So hit the gym. Learn about it, get good at it. And don't give up. Just do it - you'll thank me for it later. In a healthy body is a healthy soul, you'll see it, just go out there and start lifting if you're not already doing it. And if you are - lift harder :)

You Can Not Fake Confidence - You Have to Build it.

If you don't know how to work out, don't waste your money on bullshit products. You CAN'T get bigger in a month by doing 5 minutes of exercise a day. It takes a lot of time, dedication and discipline - but it's worth it. John Alexander's book "How to Become an Alpha Male" also has a great work out plan in it that will send you on the right track. So you won't just learn how to succeed with women out of it - but he will also teach you how to build a better life and then naturally and easily attract the ladies - so in the end, they will approach You. Now isn't that wonderful :), and if there's anything easier than that, kill me.

So to recap - Hit the Gym, Get PHYSICAL STRENGHT by Pumping some fuckin Iron - that will bring you MANY benefits that will get you closer to becoming an alpha male that is powerful, confident and attractive.

Friday, August 14, 2009

How to Become an Alpha Male - Step One

To become a real man, a true, successful leader - an alpha male, you first need to get your mind straight and start thinking the right way. Every change starts from within. If you know what you want it's a lot easier to get there then if you're just shooting all around the place. So first - determin what you want out of life and don't be afraid to think big.

Thinking big will eventually get you big. Alpha Males are above the crowd, above the average Joe's that watch TV all day and work a boring 9-5 job making someone else rich. To become an alpha male you need to dig deeper within you and figure out what is your life purpose and what the hell you want out of your life, once you become a man of purpose - women will automatically be attracted to your vibe. Women want a man with a purpose, a man with a direction - a vision. They don't want a lost guy that doesn't know what he's doing with his life, lost in space and insecure about himself. Alpha males do not display feminine traits, because as the word says - they are males, not fe-males.

What are the Characteristics of Alpha Males?

Alpha males have a different reality than regular Joe's. They know what they want and they fearlessly go for it. They took the red pill, they know about the Matrix and they are ready to bend the rules, to make it "their" world - they run their lives however they want to - and that is what makes them powerful and attractive with a dose of danger to women. So in order to get the characteristics of an alpha male - stop worrying about what other people think of you. Worrying and caring about what other people think of you is the number one reason why most guys have little to no success with women. Alpha males on the other hand - don't give a rat's ass about the opinions of others. They do whatever the hell they want to do - and they have the balls to do it.

They don't think - they act. Alpha males are men, real men, of action. There is no bullshit, there is no fear - there is power and confidence, there is strenght and passion, there is desire and the instinct to survive and spread their genes. You can not always spot an alpha male, since there are different types of them out there - and yes, it may be something you are not born with - but you can develop almost anything in life if you put some work into it.

So once again - step number one to becoming an alpha male is awakening and understanding what you truly want in your life. Stop thinkin about what other people think you should do in your life. Life is too short to be living other people's dream. Figure out what you want and go for it. It's your life, take control of it and become whatever you desire. Once you figure out your purpose and goals in life - you'll see more clearly, and you'll be able to go on on your journey of becoming an alpha male.

I advise you to read this book from Alexander because it is without a doubt the best, most simple way to change the way you view yourself, life and women - and if this book doesn't help you to become successful with beautiful women - nothing will. I recommend you this because I myself have spent years learning about women, social dynamics and becoming more powerful. I've read over 50 books on the subject of self development, and most of them are useless garbage without direction, on the other hand, Alexander's "How to Become an Alpha Male" is a raw, real book that will tell you what's really going on and how to make it without all the hype and nonsense.

Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Why You Must Become an Alpha Male?

Alpha males are the leaders of todays society. They have the most power, money and most imporatnly sex humanly possible. The problem with todays world is that these men are becoming more and more rare - Ever heard a woman say "Good men are hard to find"? I sure did, but they usually tell me this after they've found me, beggining me to stay with them and never leave them, 'cause they don't know when will "a man like me" ever come into their life again.

What is an Alpha Male?

An alpha male is some who takes what he wants in life. He knows what he wants and he knows where he is going. He is a man, a real man - masculine, strong - both mentally and psysically, he doesn't let anyone push him around, he is confident, animalistic and fearless. He is the leader of the group - and therefore he is the most attractive to women. Alpha males are usually what we call "badboy's", "bikers", and most gangsters and small time criminals that don't know how to control their alphaness - end up in, of course, jail. That is not the category you fall in if you know how to use this power within you. You can become much more powerful by using these traits.

Who can become an Alpha Male?

You can if you want to. It is natural for you as a man, and you can learn the traits of alpha males and implement them into your lifestyle - this will enable you to have more women then you can possibly imagine, and along that will come respect from men, more confidence - which will bring you more power as a man and of course - more money and in general a happier, more fullfilled life. Those are the reasons you have to become a REAL man - an Alpha Male and succeed with women and in anything else you want in your life.

I recommend you check out this incredible guide to becoming a true alpha male - this book has been sold in thousands of copies and other than myself it has helped many men become 10 times more successful with not just women but in many other areas as well. Check it out and see for yourself - if you don't like it, you can always ask for a complete redund, so it's basically riskfree. Stay on this blog for updates from time to time as I'll write a simple, 10 step guide on how to become an Alpha Male.